5 Tips to Feel Comfortable with Your Wedding Photographer
Your wedding day is one of the most beautiful and memorable moments of your life, but the idea of being in front of the camera all day can be nerve-wracking for some couples. It’s completely natural to feel a little awkward when the spotlight is on you, especially if you’re not used to being photographed. But fear not! Here are a few simple tips that will help you and your partner relax, have fun, and look like your authentic selves in your wedding photos. As your wedding photographer, I understand the importance of making you feel comfortable, especially when capturing your love story in a stunning location far from home or here in beautiful Utah.
1. Get to Know Me as Your Photographer
Building trust with me as your photographer is key to feeling comfortable in front of the camera. On your wedding day, you can expect me to be there not only as your photographer but as a calming presence who helps guide you through each moment. I’m here to make sure everything flows smoothly, so you can focus on enjoying your day without worrying about the details. I love taking the time to meet my couples beforehand—whether it’s an in-person meeting or a video call—so that we can get to know each other and you can understand my style and approach. Booking an engagement session is also a great way for us to ease into working together before your big day. When you feel comfortable with me, it’s easier to relax and let your guard down during your destination or Utah wedding.
2. Practice Makes Perfect
An engagement session is not only a way for us to get to know each other, but it's also a chance to practice being in front of the camera. This pre-wedding session allows you to experience what it feels like to pose, interact naturally, and follow my cues—all in a low-pressure setting. The more familiar you are with how I work and how you look on camera, the less intimidating it will feel on your wedding day.
Consider practicing some simple poses in front of a mirror at home as well. It might feel a little silly at first, but it can help you understand what angles and expressions feel the most natural to you. This extra practice can help you feel more confident when it comes time to take photos with me. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about finding what makes you feel good and comfortable. And if you’re feeling nervous, know that I’m here to guide you every step of the way. I want you to feel empowered and at ease throughout the entire process, and I’m always available to answer any questions or provide support whenever you need it.
3. Focus on Each Other
Remember that your wedding day is all about celebrating the love between you and your partner. Instead of focusing on the camera, focus on each other. Whisper inside jokes, hold hands, look into each other’s eyes—do whatever helps you stay connected. This genuine connection will translate beautifully in your photos, resulting in images that capture the love and joy you both share. As your wedding photographer, I know how to capture these intimate moments against breathtaking backdrops, making your photos even more magical.
If you find yourselves feeling nervous, try to create little moments of intimacy throughout the day. Take a minute to step away from the hustle of the event and just be together. Whether it’s a quick dance under the stars or a quiet moment sitting together, these small interactions can help you feel more present and at ease. When you’re focused on each other, it becomes easier to forget about the camera and just enjoy your day.
Think of your wedding day as a series of small adventures together. Whether you're walking hand-in-hand, sharing a laugh, or simply soaking in the scenery, keeping your attention on each other will help you relax and enjoy the process of being photographed.
4. Embrace the Moments
Let go of the idea that every photo needs to be perfect. Some of the best wedding photos are captured in those spontaneous, in-between moments. For destination weddings, there are often unique opportunities that arise because of the setting—whether it’s a sudden burst of laughter during a windy beach ceremony or a romantic, quiet pause during a mountain sunset. As your photographer, I’m here to help you navigate these beautiful, unpredictable elements and turn them into cherished memories. When you allow yourself to be present and enjoy each moment—whether you're laughing at an unexpected slip or sharing a quiet look—you create authentic memories that I can capture. Trust me to guide you, and embrace whatever happens without overthinking the poses.
If something doesn’t go exactly as planned, lean into it. The wind might pick up your veil or your shoes might get a little dirty—these moments are part of the story of your day. When you’re able to laugh and embrace the imperfections, your photos will reflect the real, joyful experience of your wedding. I’m skilled at finding beauty in those unscripted moments, so let go and let me work my magic.
Keep in mind that it's okay to show a range of emotions. Your wedding day is filled with laughter, tears, excitement, and love—all of these emotions make your day uniquely yours. Let your feelings come naturally, and trust that I will capture the essence of your relationship in every frame. Authenticity is what makes your photos truly timeless.
5. Breathe and Have Fun
Finally, don’t forget to take a deep breath and enjoy your day. Laugh, dance, and have fun! Your energy will shine through, making your photos look effortlessly beautiful. One of my favorite parts of being a wedding photographer is witnessing the genuine joy and love that each couple shares—those moments of pure happiness are what make your photos truly special. Relaxation starts from within, and when you’re feeling joyful and comfortable, it’ll naturally show in your photos. I’m here to make sure every moment is captured beautifully, so let go and enjoy the experience.
In Conclusion
Getting comfortable in front of the camera is all about preparation, connection, and trusting the process. By building a relationship with me as your photographer, practicing beforehand, focusing on your partner, embracing the unexpected, and letting go of perfection, you’ll end up with wedding photos that truly reflect who you are as a couple.
Want to know more about how to make the most of your wedding photography? Feel free to reach out—I'd love to help you create a destination or Utah wedding photography experience that’s both joyful and unforgettable.